Summary:
There was an edge case where sometimes a view could be added and removed in the same batch so this caused issues because we ran `disconnectAnimatedNodeFromView` before `connectAnimatedNodeToView`. This separates restoring default values from `disconnectAnimatedNodeFromView` so we can run only `restoreDefaultValues` on the pre-operations queue and just do nothing in case the view doesn't exist (it is fine because we know it will be removed immediately).
**Test plan**
Tested that native animations still work properly in RNTester and tested that the edge case crash was fixed.
Closes https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/14114
Differential Revision: D5128989
Pulled By: javache
fbshipit-source-id: 9f47a2d3aafeb06d8ed1a4dd1800b8af225edb7d
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